The Truth About Love With Men

I am not going to give you the illusion that the mass media or most dating advice 'experts' give you.

Straight up - finding the man of your dreams is going to happen when it is supposed to happen!

"What?" You may ask.

First of all - you have to play a role in this attraction/finding a partner in crime business. To begin with you need to be in a good space or be emotionally stable.

Secondly, understand that you should be emitting the right signals to let guys know that you are digging them.

Third of all - respect, appreciate and make peace with the fact that love may find you quickly or it may take time - lots of time.

Here are some pointers to keep you on the straight and narrow path to love.

1. Dont Accept B-Grade Attraction

B-Grade attraction is a bit of attraction but not the type that gives you a feeling of euphoria. If you accept second best you are selling yourself short. Had you have waited a bit longer you would have found a guy who gives you fever.

If you accept second best I can guarantee one of the following two things will happen.

a) it won't last

b) if it does you will be miserable

2. Make Sure YOU Call The Shots

When you find a guy who has mutual super-charged feelings for you, you need to be the play-maker.

* Don't have sex before being in an exclusive relationship with him. You need to state that you want to be a couple before you cross the sex line. Let him decide what he wants but never assume (no matter what the circumstance or level of attraction) that you are a couple just because you are seeing him.

3. State What You Want

This could be telling him that you don't want to be in a rubbish/casual relationship - that you actually want something real to deciding where you want to go on a date.

There is nothing more attractive than a woman who has a brain and knows what she wants. Men love the word want. Saying what you are looking for gives a man something to aspire to. They want to please you and meet your expectations. Don't be the doormat - men will only value you as much as you value yourself. Finding love begins with you.